Understanding Confidentiality Agreements in Sexual Assault Settlements

December 15, 2025 | By Fight for Survivors | Greenberg Gross LLP
Understanding Confidentiality Agreements in Sexual Assault Settlements

Making the decision to pursue justice after sexual assault is a profound act of courage. It’s a path toward holding abusers and the institutions that may have protected them accountable for their actions. As you explore your legal options, you may encounter the possibility of a civil settlement, which often includes a discussion about confidentiality agreements in sexual assault settlements. These legal documents, also known as non-disclosure agreements or NDAs, can have a significant impact on a survivor’s life long after the legal process is complete.

Understanding what these agreements mean, what rights you have, and how the legal landscape is changing is essential. This knowledge empowers you to make informed choices that align with your personal goals for healing and justice.

Key Takeaways about Confidentiality Agreements in Sexual Assault Settlements

  • A civil settlement in a sexual assault case is a private agreement to resolve a legal claim, often involving financial compensation, without going to a public trial.
  • Confidentiality agreements, or NDAs, are frequently part of these settlements and are designed to prevent a survivor from publicly discussing the abuse or the terms of the agreement.
  • These agreements can offer privacy and financial resources for recovery but may also create a sense of being silenced and can protect the reputation of the abuser or institution.
  • Recent federal and state laws, such as the Speak Out Act and California's Silenced No More Act, have started to limit the enforceability of certain types of confidentiality clauses related to sexual assault and harassment.
  • Survivors may be able to negotiate the specific terms of a confidentiality agreement to better suit their needs, such as allowing disclosure to therapists, family, or in future legal proceedings.
  • A sexual assault attorney with experience in sexual abuse cases can explain the specific implications of a proposed settlement and confidentiality agreement.

What Is a Settlement in a Sexual Assault Case?

When a survivor of sexual assault decides to take legal action, they generally have two distinct paths: the criminal justice system and the civil justice system. Understanding the difference between a civil vs criminal case is important, as a criminal case is brought by the state to punish the offender with penalties like jail time, while a civil case is a lawsuit filed by the survivor to seek compensation for the harm they have endured.

How Long Does a sexual assault Lawsuit Take to Get a Settlement?

A settlement is a formal resolution of a civil lawsuit. It’s an agreement reached between the survivor (the plaintiff) and the person or institution being sued (the defendant) to end the legal dispute without a trial. The core of a settlement is often a payment of money to the survivor to compensate for their pain, suffering, medical bills, lost income, and other damages. However, settlements can sometimes include non-financial terms, such as a formal apology or a commitment from an institution to change its policies to protect others in the future.

Because settlements happen outside of a public courtroom, their terms are private. This privacy is often a key reason why defendants choose to settle, and it's where confidentiality agreements come into play.

The Role of Confidentiality Agreements and NDAs

A confidentiality agreement, or a non-disclosure agreement (NDA), is a legal contract that creates a confidential relationship between the parties. In the context of confidentiality agreements in sexual assault settlements, it is a promise by the survivor not to disclose certain information about the case. The defendant—the abuser or the institution—almost always insists on this as a condition of the settlement. Their goal is to control the narrative, protect their reputation, and prevent public knowledge of the abuse from encouraging other survivors to come forward.

The specific terms can vary, but these agreements often include prohibitions on:

  • Public Statements: You may be barred from speaking to the media, posting details on social media, or making any public announcements about the abuse.
  • Discussing the Settlement: The amount of money you received and any other terms of the agreement are typically required to remain secret.
  • Identifying the Abuser: You may be prevented from naming the individual or institution responsible for the harm you suffered.
  • Future Disclosures: The agreement may restrict you from writing a book, participating in a documentary, or speaking publicly about your experience in any forum.

These agreements usually contain a "liquidated damages clause," which is a pre-determined financial penalty you would have to pay if you were found to have violated the terms of the confidentiality agreement. It is important to know that most agreements allow you to share the information with specific people, such as your spouse, therapist, attorney, and financial advisor.

Weighing the Pros and Cons of a Confidentiality Agreement

For any survivor, being asked to sign a document that legally enforces your silence can feel deeply conflicting. It’s a decision with no easy answer, and what is right for one person may not be right for another. It is a choice that must be weighed carefully, considering both the potential benefits and the significant drawbacks.

Potential Positives for a Survivor

  • Financial Security for Healing: A settlement can provide the financial resources necessary for long-term therapy, medical care, educational pursuits, and living expenses, which can be critical for rebuilding your life.
  • Finality and Privacy: Avoiding a long, public, and emotionally taxing trial can provide a sense of closure. A private settlement protects you from intense public scrutiny and the potential re-traumatization of testifying in open court.
  • Control Over the Outcome: A trial outcome is never certain. A settlement guarantees a specific result that you have agreed to, providing a level of control that a jury verdict does not.

Significant Drawbacks for a Survivor

  • The Emotional Cost of Silence: Being unable to share your story or name your abuser can be a heavy emotional burden. It can feel as though the settlement is protecting the perpetrator's reputation at the expense of your voice.
  • Inability to Warn Others: One of the most difficult aspects for many survivors is knowing that their silence may prevent them from warning others who could be at risk from the same person or within the same institution.
  • Perception of Injustice: A confidential settlement can sometimes feel like an incomplete form of justice. While it provides compensation, the lack of public accountability may feel unsatisfying.

Ultimately, the decision to accept a settlement with a confidentiality clause is a deeply personal one. It involves balancing the practical need for resources and privacy against the powerful desire for public accountability and the freedom to speak your truth.

New Laws Are Changing the Landscape for Survivors

For decades, powerful individuals and institutions have used NDAs to hide patterns of abuse. In response to growing public awareness and advocacy from survivors, lawmakers at both the state and federal levels have begun to pass legislation aimed at limiting the power of these secrecy agreements. While these laws don't eliminate NDAs entirely, they represent a significant shift toward empowering survivors.

The Federal Speak Out Act

Signed into law in late 2022, the federal Speak Out Act is a major step forward. This law makes confidentiality agreements related to sexual assault and harassment unenforceable if they were signed before a dispute arises. In simple terms, this targets NDAs that are often included in initial employment contracts or onboarding paperwork. 

An employer can no longer use a pre-dispute NDA to silence an employee who later comes forward with a sexual assault claim. However, it's important to understand that the Speak Out Act does not apply to confidentiality agreements that are part of a settlement agreement reached after a claim has been made.

California's Silenced No More Act

California has been at the forefront of this legal movement. The Silenced No More Act (SB 331), which expanded on earlier legislation, offers some of the broadest protections for survivors in the country. This law prevents employers from including confidentiality clauses in settlement agreements that would stop a person from discussing the facts of a case involving any form of harassment, discrimination, or retaliation. 

While the law is centered on workplace claims, its impact is felt across many types of civil cases originating in California, from tech hubs in Silicon Valley to the entertainment industry in Los Angeles.

Similar Protections in New York and New Jersey

Other states are also taking action to protect survivors' voices. These laws help create a safer environment for people to report abuse without fear of being legally silenced.

  • New York: Legislation like N.Y. Gen. Oblig. Law § 5-336 limits the use of confidentiality provisions in settlement agreements for any claim of discrimination, harassment, or retaliation. If a survivor wants confidentiality, they can request it, but it cannot be forced upon them by a defendant.
  • New Jersey: Following a similar trend, New Jersey passed a law, often referred to as the #MeToo bill, that makes any provision in a settlement agreement that conceals the details of a discrimination, retaliation, or harassment claim unenforceable against the employee.

Thesereporting laws in sexual assault cases are part of a growing recognition that forced silence perpetuates cycles of abuse. They are designed to shift the balance of power, giving survivors more control over their own stories.

Can You Refuse to Sign a Confidentiality Agreement?

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Yes, you can refuse to sign a confidentiality agreement. As the plaintiff in a civil lawsuit, you are not required to agree to any term that you find unacceptable. The entire settlement process is a negotiation. However, it is a practical reality that most defendants, especially large institutions, will not agree to a settlement without some form of confidentiality clause. For them, it is often one of the most important terms.

Instead of a simple "yes" or "no," the more common approach is to negotiate the scope of the confidentiality agreement. An experienced sexual abuse attorney can work to modify the proposed NDA to make it more acceptable to you.

Possible points of negotiation could include:

  • Specific Carve-Outs: You can request specific exceptions, known as "carve-outs," that allow you to share information with certain people (like a future spouse or children) or under specific circumstances (like in a future court case).
  • Speaking About the "Facts" vs. the "Settlement": You might be able to negotiate the right to speak about the underlying facts of the abuse, so long as you do not mention the defendant's name or the existence of a settlement.
  • Removing Punitive Clauses: Your attorney can argue to remove or reduce harsh financial penalties for a potential breach, making the agreement less threatening.

This negotiation is a critical part of the settlement process. It is your opportunity to advocate for terms that respect your needs and your voice while still achieving a resolution that provides for your future.

What Happens If You Break a Confidentiality Agreement?

Breaking a legally binding contract can have serious consequences. If a survivor violates the terms of a signed confidentiality agreement, the defendant can sue them for "breach of contract." If the court finds that the agreement was breached, the survivor could be ordered to pay back some or all of the settlement money. They might also be responsible for paying the defendant's legal fees incurred in bringing the lawsuit.

This potential for a drawn-out and expensive legal battle is precisely why these agreements are so effective at enforcing silence. It is also why it is so crucial to fully understand every word of an agreement before you sign it and to have a dedicated legal advocate who can ensure the terms are as fair as possible and that you are protected. The decision of what you can live with is yours alone, but you do not have to make that decision without guidance and support.

Confidentiality Agreements in Sexual Assault Settlements FAQs

Here are answers to some common questions survivors have when considering the complex issue of confidentiality in settlements.

Can a confidentiality agreement stop me from reporting a crime to the police?

No. A confidentiality clause in a civil settlement cannot prevent you from reporting a crime, cooperating with a criminal investigation, or testifying in a criminal trial. Your civic duty and right to participate in the criminal justice process cannot be signed away in a private contract.

Does a settlement mean the abuser is admitting they are guilty?

Not usually. Most settlement agreements include a "no-admission clause," where the defendant explicitly states that they are not admitting to any wrongdoing or liability. They are agreeing to pay money simply to resolve the legal claim and avoid the risk, expense, and publicity of a trial.

What is the difference between confidentiality and a protective order?

Confidentiality is part of a private settlement agreement between the parties. A protective order is an order issued by a judge during a lawsuit to protect sensitive information (like medical records or private communications) from being made public during the litigation process itself. Once the case ends, the protective order may no longer apply, which is why defendants insist on a separate, permanent confidentiality agreement in the settlement.

Can I still talk about my healing journey on social media if I sign an NDA?

This depends entirely on the specific wording of the NDA. Some are written so broadly that they could prohibit you from speaking about your "experience" in any context. It is critical to negotiate language that allows you to discuss your own recovery and healing in a general way, without referencing the specific facts, individuals, or institutions covered by the agreement.

Are there time limits to file a sexual assault lawsuit?

Yes. Every state has laws called statutes of limitations that set a deadline for filing a civil lawsuit. These deadlines can be complex and vary widely, but many states, including California, New York, and New Jersey, have recently opened "lookback windows" that temporarily lift these deadlines, giving adult survivors of childhood abuse a new opportunity to file claims that were previously time-barred. It's important to understand the specific laws in your state.

A Compassionate Advocate Can Help You Understand Your Options

The path to justice is personal, and the choices you make along the way should be your own. Deciding whether to agree to a settlement and what terms you can accept is a monumental decision. You deserve to have a clear, honest understanding of what each choice means for your future and your ability to heal.

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At Fight for Survivors, a division of Greenberg Gross, LLP, we are a team of trial attorneys committed to fighting for survivors of sexual abuse. We work to hold abusers and the powerful institutions that protect them accountable. Our attorneys take the time to listen to you and understand your goals. We believe in empowering you with knowledge, so you can make the decisions that are truly right for you. We handle these sensitive cases on a contingency fee basis, meaning you pay no legal fees unless we secure compensation for you. 

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